When a guy says you are intimidating
Is it bad to date a girl that's considered one of the guys? Don't be embarrassed by her ability to get along great with your friends.
The good thing is that you'll have so much in common, but guys are afraid to date these kinds of girls because they're intimidated by them. The one who knows what she wants and won't settle for any less.
However, now that I’ve come to the repeated conclusion that intimidation played a role in my recent failed dating endeavors, I feel like maybe I should rethink my stance—especially because in all of those cases that explanation seemed completely likely and totally logical.
It's a mature decision between two people to stay connected after ending a relationship, but some guys cannot handle girls having close guy friends.
It typically involves a great deal of drunken analysis, the focus of which is to compile a list of non-threatening answers to the question—“Why didn’t he want me?
”—and I’ve had a lot of success with this approach for the past couple of years.
You have such trouble breaking down her walls, trying to understand what's going on in that head of hers. If you stick with it, you'll gain her trust and you'll see those walls slowly break down.
The problem is that guys run away from this because they don't want to deal with emotional baggage. Everyone has baggage, and you'll never find someone who doesn't. No matter what kind of guy says he doesn't like clingy girls, guys also don't enjoy when girls can go out and have fun without them.